Friday, October 30, 2009
Apple Denies Palm Pre iTunes Sync, Yet Again
- Palm Pre users found their ability to sync with iTunes denied yet again on Oct. 29, thanks to Apple's iTunes 9.0.2 update. While that update was otherwise fairly routine offering a handful of other features, including support for Apple TV 3.0 the denial-of-sync represents the latest twist in the...
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Mac mini (Late 2009) benchmarks
Review: CBS Sports: College for iPhone
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Verizon Media Manager streams photos, music to your FiOS DVR
iTunes 9.0.2 update blocks Palm Pre syncing, again
Apple's iPhone hits China with high price, without Wi-Fi
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Maximize the Lifespan of ThinkPads, Macs, iPhones, BlackBerrys and More
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Will Droid gain iPhone's tech 'lust' factor?
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iPhone Makes Users Want Smarter Smartphones, Says Report
- Apples iPhone, and its introduction of the ability to customize a smartphone with downloadable applications, is part of the reason why smartphone retail prices are falling as shipment volumes are on the rise, states an Oct. 29 report from ABI Research. While in 2007, 18 percent of smartphon...
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First Look Review: Apple's wireless, multitouch Magic Mouse
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Noise Buster 7.0 adds Snow Leopard support, enhancements
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Second Microsoft store draws 1,000-person lineup
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Briefly: MainStage 2 tutorial videos, PlayHaven for devs
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Plantronics outs Voyager Pro UC targets computers
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Apple's New 27-Inch iMacs Experiencing Performance Issues?
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First Camino 2 release candidate goes online
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iPhone climbs to 2.5% world market share
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The stepmothers' survival guide
A reluctant stepdaughter herself, Cristina Odone was determined not to force a good relationship with her stepsons. But what was the alternative in a modern-day fractured family?
'You're not my mum!" I wanted to scream whenever my stepmother told me off for showering late at night, talking too long on the phone, or coming back late from a party. I, a stroppy teenager, sometimes spent the weekends at my dad's â€" my brother and I lived with Mum â€" and inevitably Michaela would criticise something I did, triggering long sulks, if not outright rows. I saw myself cast as Cinderella; just as when we'd been younger, my brother and I had identified with Hansel and Gretel. We were lost in a scary wood, where grown-ups grew distant, our home changed irrevocably, and an unfamiliar figure lurked.
Stepmothers are the stuff of fairy tales and, increasingly, of contemporary life: one in three of us is involved in a step-family situation.
It can make for tricky terrain. Flesh and blood ties may not temper outbursts, or soften criticism â€" but introduce a "step" into the equation and the result can be explosive. A "blended" family of his children, your children, maybe even an ex hovering in the periphery, requires a delicate balancing act of love and authority, reassurance and restraint. The investment is so huge, for many it proves a step too far â€" or, as one beleaguered stepmother put it, "isn't this what boarding schools are for?"
For me, it has proved immensely rewarding. I'd left marriage so late that, at 42, I never dared hope I'd be able to have a child, let alone three â€" two ready-made, providing me with an instant family. For the past six years, our blended ménage has consisted of Johnny (16) and Hugo (14) â€" my husband Edward's sons with his first wife Claudia â€" and Isabella (six), my daughter with Edward. Edward and I are constants in this family group, but Claudia, who lives in Germany, is also a presence â€" via telephone (with me) and internet (with the boys).
In retrospect, I should have been anxious and maybe a little wary at the prospect of turning my self-indulgent single life upside down to make room for a divorced man I barely knew and two boys I hadn't met. Since my own experience as the child of a "broken home", countless studies had shown the children of divorce were more likely to binge, have sex, drop out of school and get in trouble with the law. Divorce, the stats were clear, set off an avalanche of horrors; it traumatised lives, and left children and grown-ups desperate and dysfunctional in its wake. Would anything â€" love, discipline, sense of humour â€" survive such emotional upheaval?
But I was pregnant, and floating in a placid daze. Like a hormonal Pollyanna I could see only the best in every situation. A divorce was not a dead end, but a great challenge. Being a stepmother was not the dread repetition of a troubled period in my life, but a wonderful opportunity to right some wrongs. Having us live in a small rented flat was not a test of our budding, blended relationship, but a chance to develop a "one for all, all for one" mentality.
From the outset, I knew which elements of my own experience as a stepdaughter I wanted to repeat â€" and which I didn't. My stepmother's generosity and interest in my life had been a welcome extra in my youth; but I had also resented the automatic love, acceptance and intimacy expected of me. It had been a question of too much, too soon, with no one taking into account the conflicted loyalties that all children of divorce feel towards the new face on the scene.
By my 20s, moreover, my allegiance to this blended family was desperately needed. Lorenzo, our half-brother and Michaela's only child, was diagnosed with adrenoleukodystrophy (ALD), a rare genetic disorder which soon robbed him of speech, sight, hearing and movement. Lorenzo was kept at home where Michaela nursed him 24/7 while she helped my father research the little-known disease that had struck down their son. The result of their study, Lorenzo's Oil, became a therapy used widely by boys afflicted with ALD â€" and the subject of a Hollywood film starring Susan Sarandon and Nick Nolte. I still remember watching the film, and for the first time seeing Michaela not as my stepmother, or as my father's second wife, but as a fierce and indefatigable mother.
I instinctively felt that I should let my stepsons come to me, rather than bombard them with attention and affection. We could take as long as we needed to get to know each other â€" this was a lifelong relationship, not a head rush. They approached me differently from the very first day I met them at my in-laws' in Somerset. Johnny, then 10, slipped his hand in mine and led me to see Dennis the donkey in the nearby field. Hugo, eight at the time, clung to his father and stole furtive glances from under his long lashes. About a year later, when I was cooking on my own, Hugo stole up behind me and suddenly whacked my bottom hard. He didn't say anything by way of an explanation â€" and I didn't ask for any. I felt I understood his little boy's frustration, mixed with longing and confusion and sadness, at having to deal every day with this woman who was not his mum but was doing mummy-like things with him.
If the past sets the tone, the ex, too, is key in any blended family. He or she can decide to turn the children against the "intruder" (or intruders, when there are step-siblings to cope with); or can opt for constant interference, monitoring daily the children's meals, homework habits, dental hygiene. You, the new spouse and parental figure, can only stand by as the "real" mum or dad play havoc with your carefully laid plans for Christmas at your parents'; or your schedule for after-school activities.
Luckily, Claudia, Edward's ex-wife, ignored such tactics. When Edward told her that he and I were in love, she invited me for a tête-à -tête. I still remember the mixture of curiosity and fear I felt as I made my way to the shabby hotel in Victoria: what if she hated me, thought me an unsuitable influence on her sons, or felt compelled to explain what had gone wrong between her and Edward? In the event, we drank a great deal of whiskey, and discussed the future, rather than the past. We agreed that the children came first, and that communication between the grown-ups must be clear and frequent. Because there was no history between us, there is no animosity: indeed, we sometimes find it easier for me and Claudia to work out the boys' flights, holidays and visits. Between exes, even a weekend at the grandparents' can be emotionally loaded.
When Isabella was born, I was secretly relieved that she was a girl. A baby brother might have triggered jealousy and rivalry; a baby sister was an utterly non-threatening addition to our household. Claudia brought back the boys from their holiday to see the newborn, and it was clear she had presented the arrival as a welcome event rather than a worrying development. While Claudia and I cooed over the crib, Edward instructed the boys on the basics of brotherhood: they were to tease her mercilessly so she'd never become precious, and, later on, protect her from unsuitable men. For weeks thereafter, Johnny walked around muttering, in practice for meetings with putative future boyfriends: "I have a gun and a shovel, and no one's going to miss you."
With Izzy's birth, my Italian mamma side came out. I was a full-blown and irrepressible stereotype, and although I didn't wear black, with an apron and six chins, I did cook army-sized portions of spaghetti, and cross myself every time one of the children sneezed. The boys poked fun as the maternal overspill swamped them: no, they did not want a second helping; no, I should not polish their trainers; no, they would not catch pneumonia if they went to sleep with their hair wet.
Their presence, I am convinced, explains why Isabella is vaguely normal: without them, my fussing and worrying would have had only one object; instead, it has been divided by three. But if I spend a great deal of time cosseting them, I harbour no desire to replace their mother. On a Primark shopping trip recently, an unusually solicitous salesman helped Johnny and me locate a pair of the right (ie frayed and faded) jeans. When the salesman referred to me as "mum", I winced, remembering how much I had hated anyone mistaking me for Michaela's daughter. Johnny, instead, was very relaxed, pointing out that it was Hugo, dark and more swarthy, whom everyone usually thought was my son.
If I knew from the outset that I didn't want to replicate some aspects of my childhood, Edward knew from the very beginning that he wanted to safeguard the very close relationship he had with his sons. We decided that he should spend one day a weekend on his own with the boys, while Isabella and I would visit my mum. Close-knit families have a repository of memories, running gags, small rituals and sometimes even their own language which they cherish, but which exclude everyone else. I was respectful of this â€" while looking forward to the time when Isabella and I would be able to share insider jokes about the rich branch of the family, the thrill of blowing up old laptops, and three-hour sessions watching DVDs with titles like "Hatchet Massacre 3" and "Invasion of the Paranormal Spooks".
What I consider our perfect blend puzzles some acquaintances. "You can't enjoy having two teenagers who are not your own flesh and blood around?", I often hear. But I do: I enjoy the way they tease me about Izzy. Sometimes the boys themselves want to test their new nest. Last summer, as we sunbathed on the beach, Johnny and Hugo presented me with a moral dilemma they had devised. Our home was on fire, and hanging from one window was Isabella, while hanging from another were Johnny and Hugo. I could only save one lot â€" which would I choose? The question took my breath away, not because it was so brutal, but because similar dilemmas had kept me awake at night when I was growing up, a child of divorce.
I didn't answer the boys. But I know that some months ago, as I crossed the street, I turned to see whether the children were following me. To my horror, they were â€" and a white van was hurtling at top speed towards them. I saw them, holding hands and smiling unawares, and I screamed. The van braked with a screech. The children ran to safety. As I rushed to them, I realised that I had not thought about "my daughter" but about "the children".
Divorce has spawned a lucrative industry of lawyers, counsellors and estate agents â€" not to mention internet dating and Botox specialists, and personal trainers, who all capitalise on the ever-increasing number of divorcees in need of a new partner, and a makeover to snag him. But while the headlines are about the spectacular rows Jordan and Peter Andre went in for, and the pay offs that John Cleese gave his ex, many couples are quietly engaged in keeping their divorce friendly. Like Claudia and Edward, they believe that a "good divorce" is not one in which you fleece the ex for all she's worth, or secure for yourself the house, the seaside cottage and both kids. These couples have understood that divorce does not mean you shut the door and throw away the key. It is, especially when children are involved, an on-going relationship â€" like marriage, parenthood, or friendship.
When my parents orchestrated their civilised split, I remember we had a couple of Christmases when we invited my father. My brother and I basked in the seasonal atmosphere, and took delight in the friendly exchanges between my parents. More than 30 years later, I sat down to a Christmas lunch with Edward, my dad, his girlfriend (Michaela passed away in 2000), my mum, the children, my sister-in-law and her partner. I looked down the table at those familiar faces and decided nothing could be nicer than sitting with a large, slightly dysfunctional, rather eccentric clan, watching your mum pulling Christmas crackers with her ex, and your stepsons spoon-feeding your daughter bread sauce.
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Hot Forum Topic: Reader Reactions: China iPhone Sales
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Apple iPhone grabbed record 2.5% share of global handset market in third quarter 2009
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Apple again kicks Palm Pre moocher off iTunes
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Iwata interested in Kindle-like service as a business model, believes full digital download acceptance is a ways off
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An Interview with a Video Game Vampire: Gamertell sits down with Count Dracula
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New iPhone App Targets Stock Traders
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Benchmarks for the New MacBook, iMac, and Mac Mini
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BlackSn0w Unlock for iPhone Is Coming Soon [Update]
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iPhone Comes to China Without Wi-Fi
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Clarus 1.5 and Clarus for iPhone Released
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Free app roundup for October 30th, 2009
Section: iPod iTunes, iPod touch, iPhone, iPhone, iPhone SDK & Apps, Originals
Halloween might be upon you, but you’re grown up now. So instead of getting the candy, you’ll be giving it out with a big smile on your face, right? Yeah, probably not. Those darn kids just want candy. They don’t give a crap about you, and they certainly don’t care how much you spent on candy, or how much (little) effort you put into spooking up your place. So, just for you, I’ve rounded up a few free apps to help put a smile on that face.
- NASA app for iPhone - The “first-ever NASA application for the iPhone.” With it you can get updates on all the NASA missions. It has those great space images that we all love so much, and some videos too. Free for all, though free-er for those who don’t pay US taxes.
- WordPress 2 - At least 1 better than WordPress, the original app for iPhone, maybe even 2. The interface is said to be more efficient, and there are a ton of other improvements. If you have a WordPress blog, this is pretty much a no brainer must download app.
- Eric Snider’s Solitaire: Klondike LITE - 3 deal Klondike solitaire is without a doubt the only reason Windows XP is the OS of choice in the business world, so why not help rid yourself of the last possible reason to keep Windows around by downloading a free solitaire app? The graphics are nice, and it’s free. Nobody doesn’t like
Sara Leesolitaire. - Walgreens - That’s right, as if there wasn’t already a Walgreens within a mile of where you currently are, it’s coming to your iPhone too. You can order your prescription refills and your photo prints, upload images, browse products, and even locate that Walgreens a couple of blocks down the road.
- Wings Free: Flight Simulator - Timed demos are lame, but Wings is one of my favorite leisurely flight simulators. It has one level that allows you to fly like you’re in a dream over a landscape. It uses the accellerometers on the iPhone to control your flight, and there’s really no skill needed. It is free, but it’s timed, so after a short while you’ll have to tell this flight simulator to flight see-u-lator.
- TomTom car kit tool - You probably don’t have a TomTom car kit yet, but perhaps soon. And if you do plan on investing in one, this app will allow you to disable the pop-up message it causes on your iPhone. It will also display the GPS signal strength, software version of the cradle, hardware version and serial number.
- Heavy Crossbow - I’m not sure how long this one is going to last, so grab it while it’s free. I love the premise. “The helicopter crashed in the jungle, you were the only survivor.” So naturally, you have to kill any and everything that moves, with a crossbow. Now give me a Wookie rwaaaaAaAaAaaAwrrRrr!
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Casual Friday: Update for October 24 - 30, 2009
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Marvel Comics come to iPhone
Update: Infovox iVox 2.0
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Review: Toy Bot games for iPhone
Give ‘Em Hell…in High Heels with Garters & Ghouls for iPhone/iPod touch
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Review: Apple's redesigned, late 2009 13-inch MacBook
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Straw cancels plan to cut election night costs
Justice secretary acts after leaked working paper reveals proposals to cut number of polling stations and voting hours
Jack Straw today ordered officials to abandon "simply unacceptable" cost-cutting measures that would have reduced the number of polling stations and cut voting hours in elections.
A leaked working paper submitted by the Ministry of Justice to the Treasury showed that the government was planning to save £65m through such measures.
But Straw said he had not been aware of the proposals, included in a working paper sent to the Treasury, which infuriated democracy campaigners when they were revealed last night.
"Officials need the space to examine all possibilities before they put proposals to ministers," the justice secretary said. "This examination of the costs of elections comes within that category. I and other ministers had absolutely no knowledge about this exercise.
"I make no complaint about that but now that it has gone public I make clear what I would have told officials privately: that these proposals are simply unacceptable.
"The exercise has therefore ended. Democracy has to be paid for."
The Local Government Chronicle revealed yesterday that it had seen documents showing that thousands of "temporary" polling stations would be closed, and voting hours cut back to save money.
Staff would also have been reduced and traditional polling cards abandoned in favour of electronic reminders and security relaxed at election night counts.
The proposals may add to the reluctance of local authorities to count votes overnight, which has seen campaigns such as Save the General Election Night develop.
Ken Ritchie, of the Electoral Reform Society, said: "Jack Straw's decision gives some reassurance that the government is not intent on taking risks with our democracy.
"In recent months faith in politics has taken a few hard knocks. We now need to do all we reasonably can to get our democracy on its feet again. It's not a time for service trimming that could undermine the legitimacy of our elections.
"The government of course must seek value for money, but sometimes investment is needed to produce the dividends we need."
An MoJ spokeswoman last night said the plans came from "a working paper collating ideas for further consideration and [were] part of an ongoing dialogue about election costs".
Straw added: "At any time officials will quite properly be giving consideration to measures which can deliver a given value of service at low cost.
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First France Store Grand Opening Is Scheduled
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Apple: iTunes 9.0.2
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Update: Adobe Services Update 1.0.2
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BlackSn0w Unlock for iPhone Is Coming Soon
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Thursday, October 29, 2009
Review: Motorola Droid smartphone
New iPhone app translates English into Spanish as you speak
Meet the Motorola Droid, Verizon's First Google Android Smartphone
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News: Google Posts Video Demo of Mobile Google Maps Navigation (for Android)
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Best Buy Offers Instant $100 Rebate for Verizon-Motorola Droid
- Verizon Wireless' Motorola Droid, the smartphone based on Google's Android operating system that some experts said could slow Apple's rising iPhone star, is coming to Best Buy with an instant $100 rebate. Best Buy's mobile specialty retail unit said it will begin pre-selling the Dr...
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How Jive Social Business Suite 4.0 Looks in Microsoft Office, on iPhone
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Hot Forum Topic: The Mobile Market Fight: Apple, Google and Microsoft
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Apple investigates media playing headset, shoe wear-out sensor
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Easypano's Panorama2Flash arrives for Mac
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Canada sets aside its boreal forest
By banning logging, mining and oil drilling in an area twice the size of California, Canada is ensuring its boreal forests continue to soak up carbon
In the far north latitudes, buried within a seemingly endless expanse of evergreen forests, the authorities in Canada are building up one of the world's best natural defences against global warming.
In a series of initiatives, Canadian provincial governments and aboriginal leaders have set aside vast tracts of coniferous woods, wetlands, and peat. The conservation drive bans logging, mining, and oil drilling on some 250m acres â€" an area more than twice the size of California.
The sheer scale of the forest conservation drive is somewhat of an anomaly for Canada, whose government has been accused of sabotaging the global climate change talks by its development of the Alberta tar sands and its refusal to make deep cuts in its greenhouse gas emissions.
Last week, a former adviser to Barack Obama urged Canada to do more to keep up with America's moves towards a cleaner energy economy.
In the latest addition to the carbon storehouse, the provincial premier of Manitoba, Gary Doer, this month announced a $10m (£5.6m) Canadian fund to protect a 10.8m acre expanse of boreal or evergreen forest. It was one of Doer's last acts as premier; he took over as Canada's ambassador to Washington this month.
The $10m will go towards efforts by indigenous leaders to designate boreal forest lands in eastern Manitoba as a Unesco world heritage site. The Pimachiowin Aki world heritage project, which straddles the Manitoba-Ontario border, extends efforts by Canadian provincial leaders to protect the wide swaths of pristine forests in the north. It also ensures the survival of one of the best natural defences against global warming after the world's oceans, environmentalists say.
A report by the International Boreal Conservation Campaign said the forests, with their rich mix of trees, wetlands, peat and tundra, were a far bigger carbon store than scientists had realised, soaking up 22% of the total carbon stored on the earth's land surface.
"If you look across Canada one of [the boreal forest's] great values to us globally is its carbon storage value," said Steve Kallick, director of the Pew Environment Group's International Boreal Conservation Campaign. "There is so much carbon sequestered in it already that if it escaped it would pose a whole new, very grave threat."
Canada's cold temperatures slow decomposition, allowing the build-up of organic soil and peat. The forest floors beneath its evergreens hold twice as much carbon per acre as tropical forests, such as the Amazon.
It is unclear how long Canada's forests can continue to serve as carbon vaults. "As the climate warms, the place is going to dry up. There will be a problem with insect infestation. There is going to be increased natural carbon release due to fire or wetlands drying up," said Sue Libenson, a spokeswoman for the International Boreal Conservation Campaign.
But she added: "The general premise is that there is still a hell of a lot of carbon in there." Its release would be a climate catastrophe.
Canada's 1.3bn acres of boreal forest store the equivalent of 27 years' worth of current global greenhouse gas emissions, a Greenpeace study found. The destruction of those forests, scientists warn, would be like setting off a massive "carbon bomb" because of the sudden release of emissions.
That threat appears to have concentrated the official mindset in Canada, which otherwise has a poor record on action on climate change. On a per capita basis, the country is one of the worst polluters on the planet, producing about 2% of the world's emissions even though it has just 33m people. It holds one of the worst track records among industrialised states for living up to its commitment under the Kyoto accords. By 2007, greenhouse gas emissions were 34% above the target Canada agreed at Kyoto.
Canada's prime minister, Stephen Harper, is resisting doing much more, committing to just a 6% cut over 1990 levels of greenhouse gas emissions by 2020. "I see Harper's policy as a continuation of the Bush agenda," said David Martin, climate director for Greenpeace Canada.
A key advisor to Obama made a similar point last week, comparing Canada's current climate change policy to the inaction in America under George Bush. "The Canadians would be well served by keeping up with what's going on in the United States with respect to this push towards clean technology," John Podesta, who oversaw Obama's transition team, told a conference in Ottawa.
Environmentalists also fear that Harper intends to exclude the Alberta tar sands â€" the heavy crude deposits that have fuelled the rise in emissions â€" from any future greenhouse gas emissions regime.
But the Harper government did relent on forest protection, working with the Sahtu and Deh Cho First Nations to set aside 40m acres in the Northwest Territories.
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Keynote Objects FX 4.0 adds 50 new 3D images
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Games: GameSalad Now Offers iPhone Game Publishing
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